Four Kinds of Lubrication
There are four types of lubricants—water-based, oil-based, petroleum-based, and silicone-based. Each has advantages and disadvantages. Passion Parties has studied each type’s pros and cons and chooses to carry only water-based lubricants as we feel it is the safest. Revelation, an exclusive Passion Parties lubricant, has the feel of silicone without the side effects.

Water-based Lubricants
Most sex lubricants are water-based, as are ones offered by Passion Parties. They typically contain water; glycerine, a syrupy-sweet emulsifier; propylene glycol, which helps the product retain moisture; and a preservative, typically methyl paraben, propyl paraben, or grapefruit seed extract. All of Passion Parties’ lubricants are water based. Slip ‘N’ Slide is a male masterbation aid and is not considered a lubricant.

Water-based lubricants are safe for use on the vulva, clitoris, and penis, and in the vagina and anus. They do not stain bed linen or clothing. It’s safe to ingest small amounts of water-based lubricants during oral sex. They are safe to use with latex condoms or diaphragms.

Although water-based lubricants are safe, some of the ingredients might cause irritation or allergic reactions in sensitive individuals. Water-based lubricants work fine on the genitals, but they are not designed to be used as massage lotions on large expanses of skin. Many water-based lubricants claim to be “taste-free,” but that’s not quite true. Glycerine has a slightly sweet taste. Grapefruit seed extract tastes slightly bitter. Some water-based lubricants come in different flavors to encourage playful use during oral sex. These products use FDA-approved food grade flavorings.

During extended lovemaking, water-based lubricants may dry out. You can apply more, or revive them with a little water or saliva. After sex, rinse water-based lubricants off with a warm, moist wash cloth.

Until the late 1990s, most water-based lubricants contained the spermicide nonoxynol-9. Then researchers discovered that nonoxynol-9 may increase the likelihood of transmitting HIV, and lubricant makers removed it from products.

Oil-based Lubricants
Oil-based lubricants include: vegetable oils (olive, corn, etc.), butter, and nut oils (avocado, peanut, etc.). Oil-based lubricants can be used both on the genitals and as massage lotions. They may be safely applied to the vulva, clitoris, and penis, and used inside the vagina and anus. Oil-based lubes are safe to ingest during oral sex. They are not recommended by condom manufacturers. Oil-based lubricants may feel more greasy than slippery. They may stain bed linens and clothing, and require soap and water to wash off. Passion Parties does not carry or recommend any oil-based lubricants.

Petroleum-based Lubricants
Petroleum-based lubricants are made from petroleum jelly, mineral oil, or petrolatum. These products include Vaseline® and baby oil. Petroleum-based lubricants destroy latex and should never be used with condoms, diaphragms, or cervical caps.

In addition, petroleum lubricants should not be used inside the vagina. They are difficult to wash out, may irritate the vaginal lining, and change vaginal chemistry, increasing risk of infection. They should not be ingested, and may cause allergic reactions. Finally, petroleum lubricants may stain linens and bedclothes. Despite these drawbacks, many couples like petroleum-based lubricants, particularly for anal play. However, Passion Parties does not carry or recommend any petroleum-based lubricants.

Silicone-based Lubricants
Silicone lubricants are a personal adaptation of more industrial silicone lubricants (like WD-40). Slip 'n Slide is Passion Parties' condom-compatible silicone lubricant with a non-sticky, silky texture. The long lasting formula is ideal for marathon lovemaking sessions and adventurous sex. As an added benefit, Slip 'n Slide does not contain allergens or microbes that allow bacterial growth. In the past, Passion Parties has not promoted the use of silicone lubricants due to concerns from the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). However, recent studies have proven that pure silicone lubricant, like Slip 'n Slide, is perfectly safe for use. The three ingredients that make up Slip 'n Slide - cyclomethicone, dimethiconol and dimethicone - have all been approved by the Cosmetic, Toiletry and Fragrance Association (CTFA), the organization that regulates these products. Note: Silicone will not harm latex as petroleum-based lubricants will, but silicone-based lubricants can harm toys made from silicone or FutureFleshT.